As a software designer, I’ve had the pleasure of working with individuals from countries such as India, Romania, and the Philippines. Everyone has heard the stories of large corporations closing down their operations here in America and moving them to developing nations. After working with individuals living in these other nations, I am not surprised that their wealth is growing while ours is dwindling.
When I need help building a piece of software, I contact web designers in these developing nations. Development tasks that would cost $250 here in the States can be purchased for $40 or less. What I’ve always found amazing is the level of service I receive even with such a low purchase price. These individuals give their all to their work and they are grateful no matter what.
When I have work to be done, I send out a bid request and available designers contact me with their credentials and the dollar amount it will cost to have them do the work. One time, before sending out a request, I made a commitment to cut every bid amount in half and re-propose it to the bidder. I assumed I would receive a number of counter-offers somewhere between the two amounts and others telling me to go stick it. To my shock and amazement, every person agreed to the lower price with the simple attitude of “the customer is always right.” (After the winning bidder completed the work, I gave them a bonus for the other half of the original bid amount.)
A Difference of Nations
Why are jobs leaving the U.S. and being outsourced to developing nations? At first glance, it seems like a simple math problem. A business unit that costs $750,000 in the U.S. only costs $75,000 in India. If the lifeblood of a corporation is profit, reducing operating expenses is the driving force.
But look closer. How many people have you heard complain because they called technical support and had to speak with a “foreigner” that could hardly speak English? Many consumers avoid purchasing from companies who have outsourced their call centers and technical support. With these companies losing customers, and the correlated loss of revenue, there must be more to outsourcing. And there is.
In America, the general attitude of employees is entitlement. The majority feel they’re not being paid as much as they deserve, they have to work too hard, and that life simply isn’t fair to them. Compare that to the attitude of India where gratitude is expressed on a daily basis. They live in overcrowded homes, they eat food that most Americans wouldn’t touch, they ride the bus to work, they haven’t even thought of getting health insurance, and the average annual salary is around $7,500.
The toughest challenge facing business leaders today is finding and retaining good employees. Now imagine their predicament. They can have employees who complain about being underpaid and do the minimum amount of work to get by or they can have employees who thank them for every dollar they pay and go above and beyond the job requirements. They can pay managers to build morale and boost productivity or they can pay managers to train employees and then get out of the way and let those employees shine. The cost savings is only the icing on the cake. Having dedicated, grateful employees is much more useful to these companies in the long run.
Wealth Flows to Gratitude
What’s the difference? An attitude of gratitude. Most Americans feel entitled to their money, possessions, and relationships. The people in developing nations see any amount of money, any possessions, and every relationship as a gift. And because these things are gifts, they are grateful.
Gratitude attracts. Entitlement repels. It’s no wonder that jobs are leaving the U.S. to be outsourced to developing nations. The American attitude of entitlement is repelling the jobs while the foreign attitude of gratitude is attracting. The money is simply following the laws of the universe.
The Cycle
We’re in a time of leveling. Our advancements in technology have made it possible for work to be performed in faraway lands. Jobs will continue to be outsourced to developing nations whose pay rates will continue to rise as U.S. pay rates stay steady or fall. As jobs become plentiful overseas, life will follow the natural cycle. Plentiful jobs and good pay rates will become commonplace. Gratitude will fade and entitlement will take its place. Eventually, the economy of these nations will level out. The leveling is caused not from differences in pay but rather from differences in attitude. These developing nations will lose gratitude as they receive more and more, and America will gain gratitude as more is taken away. When these two forces are equal with each other, the economies of the nations will also be equal.
Adopting an Attitude of Gratitude
Entitlement feelings can creep in anywhere: money, experiences, relationships, health. Do you feel bored? That could be a feeling of entitlement to a life of fun and entertainment. Are you entitled to respect and support from your family? Or is every supportive relationship a gracious gift? Has an illness stolen time from you? Or do you appreciate every new day on this earth as an unearned gift?
Commonplace is the enemy of gratitude. We become accustomed to good-paying jobs, healthy living conditions, family and friends who love us, nice cars, big houses, time and availability for recreational activities, and access to knowledge and information. We have these things not only in our lives but in every life around us. We expect it. If your tire blew out on the interstate, would you be upset that you had to wait for roadside assistance and that you would be an hour late to work? Or would you be thankful that you have a cell phone, something you would not have had 15 years ago, and didn’t have to hitch a ride to the nearest payphone or service station. Notice how easy it is to take for granted something as useful as a cell phone. Now go back and remember the thoughts of joy, excitement, and gratitude you felt when you purchased your first cell phone many years ago.
What else are you entitled to? What else has become commonplace? What would life be like without air conditioning? Or television? How about doorknobs, lights, cars, coffee, computers, batteries, paint, wood, concrete, enriched flour, Taco Bell, oxygen, mountains, or stars? At one point, these things didn’t exist. They came into being and, if anyone was around, they were appreciated. Then they become commonplace. Now we feel entitled to looking up into the night sky to see stars shining and we also expect the night to fade when we go back inside and flip the light switch. It’s commonplace. We expect it. We’re no longer grateful for these gifts.
Personal Growth
It’s time to adopt an attitude of gratitude. Drop the phrases “I’ve earned” and “I deserve” from your vocabulary. Replace them with “I allow” or “I receive.” That’s all you can do. Believing that you’ve earned or that you deserve anything is ignorance. The world owes you nothing. Even ideals such as freedom and justice are gifts. The universe guarantees nothing.
Allowing and receiving is all you can do. You haven’t earned that $90k salary, but you allow it into your life. You thank the universe for it and open yourself to receiving more. You don’t deserve that beautiful and supportive family but you receive them openly and give whatever you can. You are grateful.
Take every opportunity to be thankful for what is. Allow the universe to deliver to you the desires of your heart. Give to the universe without expectation of reward or reciprocity and open your heart to allow in whatever it is the universe brings back to you. That is gratitude.
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